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Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure

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The book I always wish I had: an approachable guide to sexual pleasure.

Drawing from science, research and lived experience, Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure is an in-depth book on all your favorite sex topics. I give you everything you need to know to be a good lover, from collaboration to technique. But I also help you discover your turn-ons, and how to develop your sexual intelligence.

You'll learn:

  • The 5 pillars of Sex IQ: Better sex and true-to-you pleasure
  • Sexual "pleasure thieves": Why they show up, and how to heal them
  • Solo sex (aka masturbation): How to uplevel yours with special techniques
  • Communication tips: Talk confidently to partners about sex
  • Orgasm: The science, the variety, and how to have more of them
  • Oral sex: How to give and receive erotically
  • Sex positions: How to make them work for your sexual tastes, your body and your personal comfort
  • Anal play: Ideas for absolute beginners and the anal-advanced
  • Kink: New ways to play
  • Owning your sexual pleasure: unapologetically and authentically

I intentionally wrote this book to be beginner-friendly and conversation-provoking. No matter where you are on your sexual journey, Smart Sex is your fearless guide to getting the pleasure that is your birthright.

Customer Reviews (5.0 / 5 · 4 reviews)

Carter D. ★★★★★

Finally, a sex book that blends science with real talk instead of silly euphemisms. The chapter on pleasure anatomy alone made it worth the read, and the way it breaks down research into practical tips is refreshing.

Hannah ★★★★★

I’ve never seen a sex guide that actually explains the science behind desire so clearly—this one made concepts I’d struggled with finally click. The way it weaves research with real-life examples kept me turning pages, and I already feel more confident in conversations about my own pleasure.

Stella ★★★★★

The chapter on communication alone was worth the read, and I like how she backs things up with actual research instead of just opinion. It's the kind of book you can hand to a partner without it feeling awkward.